YOU and I

We both wants something, we both wants the peace. For the time being, you and I seem to be no different. We both working for our OWN justice. The justice I have meted out against you is exactly the same as you are trying to mete against me. Everyone feels the pain of loss. We both know the pain. You are working for your justice and I for mine. We are just ordinary people driven to avenge in the name of justice. But if revenge is called justice, then that justice breed yet more revenge and becomes chain of hatred living with it. Aware of the past, predicting the future. That is what it means to know history. We cannot help but acknowledge that people can never understand each other. If you don’t share someone’s pain, you can never understand them. But just because you understand them, doesn’t mean you can come to an agreement. That’s the truth.

Is our world ruled by hatred?

[Naruto Shippuuden]

Friendship

Assalaam alaykum brothers and sisters.

First of all I want to say your diligence in the matter mashaAllaah is truly the diligence every muslim should possess when learning about their religion, and whether you like it or not it does say a lot about who you are and that you are someone after the truth. I ask Allaah to strengthen your faith and keep on his straight path.

As any human being knows, feelings towards the opposite sex are always special, and that is sometimes a good thing other times it can be dangerous. One thing to always keep in mind, Islam sets the bar for us, the bar for perfect human beings. We do our best to reach it, with sincerity and help from Allaah.

The one we learn from is the Messenger of Allaah (SAAWS). He said:

"No man is alone with a woman but the Shaytaan will be the third one present"

Please see here: http://islamqa.com/en/ref/34841

and http://islamqa.com/en/ref/13728

A summary of the above is: contact (phone, email, letters etc) is only out of necessity. Anything that is not a necessity either borders on uselessness or is in itself useless, and it may lead you to a situation you never want to be in (ie have feelings for one who is not your husband).

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It is a difficult thing to give up, but with the help of Allaah I think you will find that your life can continue without male friends. You can simply send a generic email to all your male friends explaining to them that unless they have something urgent and absolutely necessary they are not to contact you because you will not respond to them anymore.

This is one of the reasons why men and women are encouraged to marry in Islaam.

Look at this verse from the Quraan:

"O mankind, eat from whatever is on earth [that is] lawful and good and do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy."

[2:168]

Allaah in His infinite wisdom does not say "avoid physical contact with the opposite sex", but he says do not follow the footsteps of shaytaan. As Zakir Naik said, a person would say "What's wrong with a phone call, its just one phone call?!" and then later on that same person would say "What's wrong with a dinner, its just one dinner?!" and then later on that person would say "What's wrong its just one night!!".

The danger is there for both men and women so it is definitely not a one way street.

The bar is there for us, and that bar is ultimate success in this life and the hereafter.

Islam is not only a religion of cure, but emphasise more on prevention.

[taken from TurnToIslam.com]

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O Allah,

Please guide my friends and me on how to conduct ourselves according to your will. Jauhkanlah kami daripada menjadi orang-orang yang menlampaui batas dalam segala hal.

Amin~

~ Interesting day ~

Pada awal subuh yang hening.. Bangun and solat kat surau.. kononnya nak khusyuk lebih skit.. tup2 tetido kt surau.. bangun2 je sakit tulang blakang.. sejuk x mau2 huhu..

Siap2 nak g lab.. buang tebiat.. pkai baju batik kaler ijau.. kaki x nak gerak kuar dr blik so makn breakfast dlu.. nyum2.. kol 10 bru g lab..

Kat lab.. x de BSA n eppendorf tube so kne jalan g IPS.. lalala.. maka berjalanlah dua orang makcik seakan2 nak g pasar beli lauk tgh hari.. da amek agar, tati tolak2 soh g minta eppendorf tube kt cindy.. huhu.. stelah menggagahkan diri dpatlah 2 kotak eppendorf.. Happy!! Thanks Cindy!! Cindy soh buang kotak kosong kt luar lab.. tp konpius.. kt mane?

Balik lab.. mkan tgh hari n sambung keje~ streaking smbil singing lalalala~

Hari merangkak ke petang.. mummy tati call soh balik.. so ktrang pun kemas2 barang.. tetiba berita kurang menggembirakan :(

Yi Hui: dr K says lab is not open on friday.. saturday buka la

Izzati: Hah..Why??

Yi Hui: Mr Gopal is in d hospital n Abg Jep is going to celebrate it.. so no body is available for tomorrow (sambil gelak2)

hurm.. lab x bukak sok so kene abeskan keje hrini gak.. kill2 die2 n wash everything tok hapuskan bahan bukti ;D.. ohh.. laparnya.. naseb baik Hana sedekah skotak susu y spatutnya dia wat yogurt hehe.. thanks Hana!! x kesah la simpan kt cold room pon.. y pnting ak dan maziah kenyang minum susu..

malam say hi! kemas2 lab.. packing barang.. kunci pintu lab.. dok pikir nak blik nek teksi ke jalan kaki.. disebabkan usung fail2 yg berat tu n hujan rintik2.. amik kputusan tok nek teksi.. duduk la tgu teksi kat bus stand ngan maziah.. baru prasan y purse tinggl dlm lab.. huhuhu.. no money lorh.. terasa diri sendiri malang :(

maxi pon offer la pinjam duit dia.. thanks maxi!! so berjalanlah dua orang kawan ke mesen atm bank islam.. seanjang jalan ak dok berharap ad le org tompangkan ktrang huhu.. maxi balik dlu.. Disebabkan tahap kesabaranku y rendah, ak pn bertekad utk jalan kaki pulang.. hehe jimat duit.. maka berjalan kakilah cik noorzilah di bawah hujan renyai2 [dramatik lebih haha] ..

tanpa ku sangka2 sebijik keta berenti di sebelahku.. fikirku mereka ingin bertanya arah.. rupa-rupanya mereka ingin menompangkan aku.. huhu.. betapa terharu n bersyukurnya ak dikala itu hahaha... thanks makcik n pakcik!! Gumbira ;D

da sampi pndu puteri ak terus call Maziah.. Excited cita kt maxi.. sepanjang nek tangga dok gelak2 happy.. elok je smpi tingkt 3, ak tcegat dpan pintu.. o ohhhhhh!!! card dlm purse!!! x bley masuk floor.. brkata pd diri sndri "kamu bisa pikir zilah".. tepon k ayuni dgn hrapan dia ad kt blik.. dia kt umak kak dia huhu [hampa].. tpon fit.. hp dia x da beteri [hampa lagi].. blari2 trun bawah carik tpon.. call pejabat.. x de org sambut [kecewa].. tpon panyelia.. kecewa lagi.. tpon 3rd floor[berdebar2].. yey! ad org angkt.. blari naik tgkt 3 coz nak jmpe ort tu nk say thanks.. org tu da x de.. Neway.. Thanksss!!!

Semput.. x larat nak wat pape.. dduk dpn leptop n start to write smbil rse tharu coz rmainya org tolong arini..

Alhamdulillah.. Smua yang berlaku dibawah kehendakMu ya Allah.. tempatkanlah aku dikalangan orang2 yang bersyukur.

Ya Allah, di awal Hijrah ini, muliakan dan sayangi saudara-saudaraku yang banyak menghulurkan bantuan kepadaku sepanjang usia ini.. Bahagiakan keluarganya, sihatkan tubuhnya dan berkati rezekinya. Amin.

~ zilah no hibi~

Semalam sy ditinggalkan bersendirian di satu majlis bertempat di kps. I dont know why i feel lonely eventhough there are so many people that i know and i can call friends. Just a weird feeling last night. Meet my friends but don't know what to talk about. I tried to smile but it seems so fake =( . Feeling sick of my own 'weird feeling', i just walk out of the majlis before it ended.

It just so nice walking under d moon light hehe.. feel like to singgah the UM lake and breath d fresh midnight air but takot la plak huhu..

At room - cannot sleep ='( .. i tried very hard but my eyes keep disobeying me. Keep thinking on what to do for the project; seafood? egg product? milk n dairy? Waaaaaaaa... cannot choose one!! suddenly teringat kat makcik vet PJ.. sooooooooo geram at her~ tha previous project was so nice.

cannot sleep..

cannot sleep....

cannot sleep......

i search for salmonella journal d rest of the night. Headache ~

Going to IPS at 10am, late already. Rushing to cold room to take samples and lost my beloved brown brooch on the way to IPS huhu.. luckily the bus dont gelek me on the way.. so close you know.

In the student's lab, my brain seems to be so empty. Lost in space~ lalalalala~ me and zati were preparing agar for our first sample. Zati was out to pray while i brilliantly pour d broth media in plates hahaha.. zati keep repeating that until now haha.. foolish things done when i'm not in focus.

While waiting for d agar to harden, we were playing 'bunga matahari n zombie' [dunno whats d real name]. so interesting one.. like it!! protecting izza's home from zombie~

what else? dun remember~ still very blurrr......

~Blurrr.. Pening2~

"impianku bukan menjadi isteri saudagar pak.. impian ku ingin menjadi seorang GURU"

ibu Muslimah

~The World is Starving~

The world is starving from:

1. Good manners

2. Clean air and water

3. People who will stand for humanity

4. The community that will go against racism

5. Leaders who say NO to corruptions.

6. Children who are being brought up with religious knowledge

7. Scholar who uses knowledge for the benefit of human kind

8. Country where every citizen is treated with respect and

integrity

9. Place where our child can see their future

The world is sick. What's the cure?

The world is suffering. Who cares?

The world will come to the end. No one bother.

Make this world a better place to live. If it is not for us, it is for our future generation.

~Marshmallow and Mornflakes Oat~

nyum~nyum

A pack of Mallow Blast and Mornflake instant oat save me from starving tonight =).. Thanks to my best friends who gave me these foods. It’s so delicious.. nyum.. nyum.. Is it because I’m so hungry? Haha.. who knows..

It’s raining heavily outside that I can’t even go to Amjal for my dinner. I’m easily got hungry when the weather turn to be like this, cold and dull. Being too lousy doing my assignment, with my stomach playing a rock song, I began to start my ‘room cleaning session’ so that I can ignore my hunger. Suddenly, I found a pack of chocolate covered marshmallow and 2 packs of Mornflakes inside my drawer. LUCKY XD!! I ate with a grateful heart. Thanks to Allah.

This reminds me of our families in Africa, Iraq and all over the world who are suffering from hunger. They are not lucky enough to suddenly found marshmallow inside their drawer or being treated free food by their best friend. We are so lucky to be blessed with enough foods, enough restaurants and money to eat. We can eat wherever we want and whenever we want yet we still complaining about food. Skipping one meal of dinner can make us angry and fight with each other. Haven’t take breakfast make us mourn until lunch time. Sometimes I just can’t really understand what foods really mean to each individual. If it’s for me, I just don’t mind skipping my meal and eat double the amount on the next day [don’t do this at home] haha.. Maybe I got used to it already =). But, I do get angry because of food sometimes (*_*).

My friends and I, do reflect the situation of our friends who are hardly getting food and water to fill their tummy. They can’t even choose what to eat. Maybe this is a different argument and different situation but I can’t imagine if we are on their shoes. If suddenly Malaysia is being attacked by Thailand and everything is turned to be like the 50’s. Special meal: ubi kayu + ikan masin, only served at midnight when the army are sleeping, candle light dinner ~ . Are we going to survive?

Ramadhan is just around the corner. It is the best time to reflect ourselves. Add up whatever less and throw away useless things. Happy Ramadhan!! Hopefully, this Ramadhan is a lot better than before. Almighty God. Peace be upon Muhammad, the messenger of God.